relation

Pre-word

An ideal community is healthy. It benefits when men and women serve this cause. A way is through remedies of consideration, as in the serious topic that follows.

When one of youthful men or women form and nurture the feeling of dislike, this by influence may catch similar feelings in like persons. Gathering dislike amoung a group, can over time transition to beginning the small quantities of hate.
Yet, if anyone can prove the dislike held by the one was only superficial rather than actual, that initial feelings of dislike may instead be feelings of like, in the public square of attention much hatred likely can disappear. Is it a worthy goal to dissipate dislike for the common better-ment ?
For this goal, I hope a specific someone will measure this info as acceptable, and if not will grant me tolerance and allow me lenience.

Relationship

Everyone wants to be effective in relationships. In all facets of life, we want to deal with people successfully. To understand, shapes a man into a tool of compatability.

Everyone aspires to have care from an individual or company. Naturally and consequently, a woman seeks the affections of a man, and vice versa.
For men, we suit the standards of a woman by meeting and matching their expectations.
From the natural accordance of relationships, also between men and women peculiarities of disagreement can usually develop.

Example

A scenario is presented. 1 man finds 2 different women, each who seeks a companion. Each of 2 women like or perhaps may love the 1 man.
A man may like both, yet chooses 1 woman. When a spring of a man's affection chooses a woman, the first woman feels an approval, the second woman feels rejection and hurt.

Basically, a person who is hurt by someone automatically wants to hurt that someone in return. If a male hurts a female, she wants to hurt him back.
However, a woman has to care about someone to be hurt by someone. If a woman has no hurt, it would mean she didn't have any feelings for him to begin with, and that would incite no reaction.

As a response, when a woman Is hurt by a man,
to hurt him in return, she finds a different male to in public give approval. The open gesture when seen by the man, this is a way to return the feelings of rejection and hurt to him - the man who likes her but did not choose her.

From experience, this is the typical mode of behavior between males and females.

React

Please, from this latest blog you're reading at the top of the main page of all blogs, skim the listed blogs below.
Please search for the date Aug 10, to find a group of 3 Blogs. Together, they are dates Aug 10, Aug 6, July 25.
A significant blog of the 3, is blog Nice 2.

Please let us apply the explained lesson above to this situation.
In Nice 2, I confess my feelings for a girl and the reasons. I would suggest to read only blog Nice 2 and its first paragraph.
After I was admitting my feelings for a girl,
if there was a different girl or any girl who had any care for me, as a response, it would start probably showing as a public event in the time happening immediately afterwards, within the dates from July 25 to Aug 10.
In this case, could a display of dislike actually show a like?

Meet

Of another subject, when we meet someone who is truly valuable it stirs in us a full excitement, fun, and joy.

I hope this topic could clear at least some dislike circulating about in the public sphere.
I wish you'll have merry times proceeding in the weeks from the day of Christmas.
Thank you and ciao.

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Posted: Dec 30, 2025, 4am pdt