constancy

Here continues the discussion about relationships of benefit,  by my personal comments and opinions.

Giving

Here is a verbal  illustration of achievement:
A person who has improved to  mastery a talent, skill, or work
when he generates massive success with the public, can find the luck and  way to  reach financial success to wealth.

If he does, from his knowledge of the way to gaining wealth he is also the best teacher for wealth.
The ideal mentor from his knowledge of  wealth and  resource of his acquisition of wealth, can school his special info and  experience to guide a beginner for a leading  start-up, and can
significantly boost the newcomer's capacity and reputation to leap ahead as a pioneering forerunner;
which increases the chances to potentionally amount to an equal success as the mentor.

The definition of a friend  is someone who primarily gives - as stated in the last paper.
In the state of  abundance, a mentor can comfortably give from his wealthy resource to a student - who  starts without abundance. 
In the state of primarily  giving from having much , this kind of mentor who gives to someone who has little, matches the definition of a good friend.
The student without success &  wealth, with the mentorship of rhe teacher  transforms the student  into a person with success & wealth.

MIPA

As I stated before, Mipa who is in a state of abundance, and is the ideal mentor to school someone  to gain financial wealth, comes to another person who is in comparison  without abundance and has little.  He could give like a true friend, yet Mipa comes  in asking, as weak,  as helpless, as sick,  or as someone in need.
Is Mipa there to give help as a friend, or to take help?
Why is it  Mipa who has reached abundance  has been searching for a mentorship from me for abundance?   Should it be a vice versa case;
Since I am the person without massive success and wealth, with Mipa as my mentor, from 0% he could take me to 100% wealth?  Although Mipa requests for my help; so  does Mipa expect me to be the teacher that takes Mipa the student from 100% to 100%?

Furthermore, an example of being helpless is when  Mipa had  asked for my help  each time on about 3 occasions when  his friends had passed away.  He had sought emotional support.  Instead of relying on his infinite friends, loving  family, personal pastor,  and . . .  ( as explained in the previous paper)  and the entire earth of joy, love, and security, Mipa didn't wholly rely on those true sources of support, rather (it seemed) his prime requests have been for my help. 

I've been sick myself; spending time to mend.  Sometimes when Mipa was sick, he brought it to me for an extra load of hardship  to handle.  When a person is sick, he seeks the help of a doctor who can cure sickness, not the help of another sick person.

Hence in years, I have not expressed a potential sign of friendship, haven't felt any attraction or  affinity (yet) , also we've  not solidified a real friendship.    I  as a source of help is either nonexistent, anonymous,  unreliable, etc.
Nonetheless, without my ability to alleviate with  real help Mipa who with  immeasurable store of  resources has been requesting from  me to be a chief helping hand with unstoppable constant and prominent   force. He's been seeking in me a magical answer or solution.  If Mipa has infinite supply of wealth and nurturing people yet still  seems has not found a solution, is it possible to help the unquenchable need he has?
Is what Mipa asks from me logical?
Am I obligated to help someone who is more successful than everyone on the globe?
Or should I help those who can't help themselves, and require help? 
Furthermore, people who need help ask for it. To give when someone doesn't ask, it may go unappreciated, discarded, and wasted.
Years had traversed in time until finally I had wrote to Mipa numerous times  his actions to me were hurtful.  A friend  primarily gives joy and benefits.  A true friend when he realizes his actions hurt and take away joy of someonce else,  would  at least preserve another's joy by withdrawing away any pressure to allow confortable space for the natural wellbeing of the other to breathe and yield.
Regardlessly, Mipa ignored my public statements of harm and discontent and had made advancements over   my pleas to discontinue.
For additional  years, Mipa continued his need for friendship outside legal bounds, through indirect relationships and means. 
If Mipa truly seeks to help another person, within the bounds of law
most people would feel more comfortable.

Friendly way

The Creator has given us the ability to choose our own preferences.  We select our choice of food, our clothes, our vehicles, and  choice of relationships, et cetera. 
Our different courses of life by millions of deviating crucial decisions may create a truly unique individual even in all of history.

Checking

If Mipa wishes to reach me, I will only recognize the unique
Checkered Pattern.  Any other color will not be readily acknowledged. 

Last

I find these debates over years about friendship without  interest.  If I don't write about a friendship between Mipa and I  again, please give me a pardon.

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Posted: Mar 25, 2026, 11pm pdt