Postscript Page #2

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This information is to any new gentleman as a friend/associate or lady as a date, from June 2024 to past years.

I resorted in postponing offers throughout the latest years for relationships. For a specific relationship, I had been preoccupied up to the time of June 2024. Hence, for dating, in devotion to one girl I was required to ignore any new lady because of faithfulness.
I must leave with you a word of caution. Because I witnessed it from years of experience, from 2023 and backward. As a safeguard, I needed to resort to keep my interests concealed, especially for friendships.
That means, if I found you suitable as a friend, or if today you're compatible with me as a date, my interests had/have been required to stay hidden. The prime reason is, to be frank or to openly say it, if a certain someone knew who my interests are he will seek to get to you first. As a friend or date, once my interests are known, the someone's full attention will place on you. He will advance towards you simultaneous with me, or before I can do anything.
The only way to keep my potential friends or date in security is to not show I care; Strange but true.
Today if I like you as a date, you will be his aim. I witnessed it a number of times especially in the years 2021-2023.

In my experience for a relationship with me, where I felt it was inappropriate to endure and meet force, the certain person may use these channels. For example, he may use online movies and the net news, ads, his noteworthy friends, or your circle of family and friends. He may reach out to you at his highs and lows. He even reached for me as company when 3 of his friends passed away, even when I have no connection to him or his friends. Instead of seeking complete emotional security from his unlimited support, best friends, loving family, and dedicated wife, plus an available trusted pastor, I found it was peculiar when I was depended on as one of his main supports. Each time he reached out to me, when I'm an unpredictable, unwilling, and an untrustworthy stranger.
Please remember. He may act as my friend. For valid reasons, I've been declining a friendship with him for years. As a friend, it's not true. Personally, we're strangers. There isn't a friendship that exists between us.
Once you are in his attention, as he did with me for years, he may use force. He's influential, insistent, consistent, and powerful. Please be cautious.

2) As of hopefully today, I'm on vacation. I've been very sick from stress, forced labor, exhaustion, and something else, not virus related, since Jan 1, 2024. I'm not yet available and ready to handle the load of an important or significant friendship or lady interest.
For any female who "went out on a limb" for me, to give superb effort, you are very valuable. Don't feel embarrassed if I can't respond. Thank You.
Especially, if you waited for me through years, I've given you much attention and consideration. If you are a special lady, who made an enormous contribution of work, sadly I didn't have available the time to enjoy the finest works. In my vacation, I will peruse or study them. In those weeks I can review any gems of affection. I may care about you but there is nothing I can do today or immediately.
If you're a lovely lady who seeks a relationship with me, this is my advice. If you're working beside an available male who is compatible, willing, and who makes a great income, you should go for it. Please give your mind to care for yourself first. Emotionally, I've been heavily damaged. When my healing time is done and I'm well prepared that date is not foreseeable and calculable. When I return, I'll investigate all visible choices. I wish you a good journey.

3) To any gent: As in "Places", I'm not planning to star in movies. Years of experience in professionalism is what's in-demand. If I do star I'd probably take a position in the background. Instead, I'll give the best work I can.

4) Mipa has international renown. Persons might be puzzled. When he's fragile and vulnerable, why do i appear disinterested, careless, unsympathetic, or unfriendly about his wishes for friendship? I repeatedly have tried to explain to everyone but Mipa is usually in a special occasion or crisis, and the time is so fragile that I'm not allowed to tell my side of the story. I'll leave the explanation as that. Although in a fair trial for example, usually we listen to both sides. There exists a reason.

Farewell. I wish for you an excellent Christmas and remarkable new year of 2025.

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Posted: Nov 3, 2024 3:10am pst