Postscript Page

 
People of the public:

Here's a postscript (P.S.) as a whole ending page, instead of message at the end of a letter.
I give an apology to Mipa, " Grant me a pardon. I apologize. I didn't know."
Herein, I try to treat Mipa politely or delicately.

I skimmed the multi topics of news, and picked a couple.
I had been ignorant of the sad incident in about a week ago, until yesterday morning.
Mipa's popular friend had passed away in a tragic finish. As well as, Mipa is again asking me for a friendship.
In case Mipa is being friendly and opening up to me, he expects a 'yes' or 'no' answer. This page is my reply.

What is love?

We know what love is, because we are born with an innate capacity to love. Also, you can find it in any book about it.
Generally:
Love doesn't seek to harm, it helps and heals.
It doesn't seek to take, it gives.
It doesn't seek to force, it allows.
It doesn't seek to intrude, it guards.
It doesn't seek to control, it guides.
It doesn't seek to damage, it preserves.
Etc.

The average way to discern love is by asking, "How does it make you feel?" Is the usual feeling good or bad?

In addition, from a net commenter I combined a few quotes into a single combined sentence. The result is, " You can love someone for their work."
To Mipa, I'm a stranger personally, yet he's consistent toward a friendship. The new quote adds that perhaps Mipa cares about me by my work.
For any real friendship or relationship they have a basic foundation of love.
A better concise sentence is,"You love someone for their work," then, "You love someone."
To inspect the sincerity of anyone's friendliness it should share with you its signs.
For Mipa to persist his offers of friendship when I declined them for 3.5 years, perhaps suggests its from true friendship that he continues.
True friendships for everyone ideally have a foundation that consists of the heart.
Which means it should meet many of the listed 6 criteria of love above.

6 Requirements and Answer

For 2 examples:
#1) Does Mipa's offer Harm or Heal?
Years it was said, especially the last 1.5 years. If so eager, Mipa listened when I stated he should please desist his offers of friendship. I cautioned that for him to move forward would cause harm to me. Mipa wished to continue and acted accordingly.
#2) Does Mipa's offer Force or Allow?
(In the interview, where he cries, he verified it by admitting that force was not proper to use.)
For years, when I wrote of Mipa, I had to include the word 'force' as a way to describe his offer of friendship. I felt it was the term to use.
Lastly, does Mipa make me feel mostly good or bad? The answer perhaps is known to the general visitor of this site.
What if a potential friend when measured misses the signs of friendship?

Please remember, Mipa has unlimited support, numberless friends, a loving family, and a spouse who adores him.
Mipa's primary concentration since his new family member arrived should be on a good upbringing; Instead of me.

Final

My encounters with Mipa indirectly and remotely sums 3.5 years. The same interaction I bore years before then, for 1 or 2 years additionally.
Thus, I have known Mipa for 5 years. I first saw him from about his early teens. I understand very well who Mipa is.

In New York stands the Statue of Liberty. Liberty gives us free choice.
Thanks for reading. Please enjoy Halloween and Christmas.

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Posted: October 28, 2024, 7:10am PST